A Knock at the Door – What Would You Do?
You’ve just got home from work, exhausted, when the doorbell rings. A young woman stands on your doorstep, visibly shaken, claiming someone is following her. She pleads for help.
Your instinct kicks in, you want to help. But what you don’t see is the shadow moving around the back of your house.
While you’re focused on her story, an accomplice has slipped through the unlocked back door. Your car keys, wallet, and laptop are gone before you even realise what’s happened.
This is called a "distraction burglary," and it’s spreading across the UK because it preys on our most basic instinct—compassion.
💡 Why This Trick Works So Well
Criminals know exactly how to manipulate human nature. Here’s how:
1️⃣ They Exploit Human Instincts
Most people won’t ignore someone in distress. Criminals use common scenarios designed to make you act first and think later:
• The urgent plea 🚶♂️ – "I’m being followed, please help me!"
• The medical emergency 🤕 – "I think I’m having a heart attack."
• The lost pet trick 🐶 – "My dog just ran into your garden!"
• The struggling child 🧒 – "My son fell off his bike, can I get a plaster?"
2️⃣ They Pick the Perfect Moment
These aren’t random crimes. Burglars observe routines and exploit daily habits to increase their chances of success:
After-work fatigue 🍽️ – You’re tired, focused on unwinding, and less alert to red flags.
School run chaos 🎒 – A knock at the door while you’re juggling kids, bags, and homework increases the chance you’ll be distracted.
Late-night urgency 🌙 – Darkness makes it harder to assess people properly, and urgency triggers snap decisions.
Burglars wait for the right moment, knowing when people are most likely to act on instinct instead of caution.
3️⃣ They Work in Teams
While one person holds your attention at the front.
• An accomplice checks for unlocked doors 🔑
• Another enters through the back or side 🚪
• A third person watches for neighbours or cameras 🎥
They rely on distraction and urgency to lower your defences. But with the right precautions, you can help safely, without becoming a target.
🛠️ How to Protect Yourself Without Losing Compassion
The solution isn't to become paranoid or stop helping people. Instead:
✅ Create a Safe Way to Communicate
• Use a door chain 🔗 – Keep the door secure while speaking.
• Check through a window or video doorbell 📹 – See who’s there before opening up.
• Offer to call emergency services 📞 – If someone truly needs help, they’ll appreciate it.
✅ Check Your Blind Spots
• Lock all other doors before answering 🚪 – Criminals exploit distractions.
• Keep side gates secured 🔐 – Unlocked garden access = an open backdoor opportunity.
• Improve visibility 💡 – Motion-activated lights deter loitering outside.
✅ Trust Your Instincts
Most victims felt something was off but ignored their gut feeling. If something doesn’t seem right:
• Stay behind your locked door.
• Tell the person you’re calling for help.
• Call the police if you’re concerned.
Helping doesn’t mean putting yourself at risk.
✅ Consider Smart Security Systems 📱
• Install a smart security camera or video doorbell – These devices allow you to monitor who’s at your door without opening it, keeping you safe while assessing the situation from inside.
✅ Join a Neighbourhood Watch 👀
• Build a network of trusted neighbours – Share information about suspicious activity to keep your community alert and safer together.
✅ Be Cautious of "Emergency" Situations 🚨
• Criminals often create a sense of urgency to trigger quick decisions. Stay calm, take your time, and verify the situation before opening the door or offering help.
🤔 Ask The Broken Padlock
Q: "But what if someone really needs help?"
A: You can be both compassionate and cautious. Tell them you’re calling emergency services. A genuine person in distress will wait. Someone with bad intentions will likely leave.
🕯️ And Finally...
Crime is evolving, but so can your awareness. Most burglars don’t force entry; they look for an open door, a distraction, or a rushed decision.
Next time the doorbell rings unexpectedly, pause, assess, and respond smartly. Helping someone should never mean putting yourself in harm’s way.
📢 Next Week: "Phishing Scams – Are You the Catch of the Day?"
We’ll dive into how cybercriminals trick people into handing over their personal information, and how you can stay one step ahead.
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🔒 Stay sharp and stay safe, The Broken Padlock Team
Disclaimer:
While the advice provided in this newsletter can help reduce the risk of becoming a victim of crime, no security measure or strategy can eliminate the risk entirely. The goal is to reduce the risk to as low as reasonably practicable (ALARP), acknowledging that some level of risk will always remain due to the unpredictability of human behaviour and the methods used by criminals. According to criminological theories such as Situational Crime Prevention (Clarke, 1983), the most effective way to prevent crime is to alter the environment or circumstances that allow it to occur. However, even with the best precautions, risk can never be reduced to zero. The only way to completely remove the risk is to entirely eliminate the target in other words, remove the opportunity for crime to occur altogether. This reinforces the importance of layered security measures, vigilance, and ongoing risk assessment to effectively mitigate threats.